I’m becoming more and more convinced that 90% of the people who confidently self-identify as ‘adults’ and use that ‘adulthood’ as a way of flaunting their superiority over other people are actually just really fucking boring.
if you’re a woman, your physical appearance is a no win situation.
there will always be someone who tells you that you look fat or you look anorexic or that they hate your hair or that you wear too much makeup or you don’t wear enough makeup or your boobs are asking for attention or your boobs are too small or your butt is too big or your butt is too small or you never dress up or you try to hard.
screw them you’re a beautiful badass.
Anonymous asked: Honestly: are u happy with your body? Like, do you want to lose some weight?
okay. so this is an obviously misguided question, but I still think it is valuable to answer it honestly.
I have mixed feelings about my body, same as everybody. I have days I’m super stoked about my body and days I don’t feel as great. I had these same up and down days when I was a size two, and when I was heavier than I am now as well.
if I lose weight, that’s fine. if I gain weight, that’s fine.
when I work out it is for cardio and strength as opposed to weight loss. when I eat I am conscious of the nutrients of what I’m eating, but I’m past setting “calorie limits” or any such things. (also, just because I care about what I eat and am exercising doesn’t mean anybody is obligated to do either of those things or should have to justify that position!).
being happy with my body is in no way correlated with my weight.
Yes yes yes, lady.